Friendlies don't always turn out that way

Probably the most surreal experience of my refereeing career was when fans, mainly young and female, queued up for my autograph while rock star Rod Stewart walked behind them unnoticed. 

This was in the days when I refereed celebrity charity matches. Generally the ability of the celebrities was about Sunday League standard although some were better. Rod Steward had trials in his youth for Football League clubs and, as I remember, John Francombe, the jockey, was a fair player. Others took the game as an excuse to fool around, such as the late Marty Feldman of the bulging eyes. There were some like Bill Oddie who took it too seriously, forgetting that the public paid to see the game because they were celebrities and not because of their football skills. 

Usually the games were easy to control but occasionally there would be someone who fancied himself as a celebrity hard man. As referee you are in a difficult position. You don't want to be heavyhanded but you can't allow possible injury to highly paid celebrities. 

I remember a game at Elm Park when Ken Jones, a Daily Mirror sports writer, started wrapping his boots around a few legs. After appealing to him to tone down his tackling, I warned the organisers that if they didn't substitute him, I would send him off. They duly obliged.

Many referees are faced with similar problems at friendly matches before each season starts. In most games, especially at professional level, an agreement is reached that any player likely to be disciplined by the referee will be replaced to prevent any such action being taken. I remember an example at an earlier pre- season friendly against Southampton at the Madejski Stadium. Matt Le Tissier who was still playing at that time, swore quite openly at the referee. During a league match this should have resulted in a red card but a nod from the referee to the Southampton bench and Le Tissier was quickly substituted. 

During the close season I attended a briefing by the FA Head of Refereeing. He told us that these arrangements had to stop. Bad behaviour should be treated as in any normal competitive match. Not all referees, however, heeded this advice. 

In the Leeds United pre-season friendly with lowly York City, Mark Viduka the Aussie centre forward clashed with City's Andrew Jordan throwing the ball at his opponent's head. Peter Reid agreed to the referee's request that they should substitute Viduka. They lost his services for the rest of that friendly but there was no red card which would have kept him out of a Premiership match when the season started. The referee was asked by the FA to explain why he had 'less than proficiently applied the laws of the game'. National newspapers condemned the FA action, claiming that a sterner attitude will lead to big clubs refusing to play friendlies, cutting off a useful cash supply to lower league clubs. The problem is, where do you draw the line? 

At the beginning of last season a local referee had made this type of agreement with the two clubs in a pre-season friendly. One player committed the type of offence which would have seen him sent off. A quick word to the club and he was called off. Before he left the field however he called the referee a F******W***** (I'm sure I don't need to spell it out). Was the referee going to take that as well? He didn't and the player received a red card and no substitute was allowed. Another referee this year heard the coach call out to his players 'It's only a friendly, don't worry about cautions'. Within minutes he had to issue a yellow card. 

It seems to me that these arrangements have had their day. As always, you give the clubs an inch and they take the proverbial mile.


Dick Sawdon Smith

 

© R Sawdon Smith 2003

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